Juncus effusus
Remedy code: 3-633.21.09
A toddler almost five years old with behavioral problems, the older brother needs a lot of care, there are many hospitalizations, and a lot of attention is given to the brother.
The little one always feels sidelined and has been emotionally unhappy over the past year. She thinks we don't love her, that she's doing something wrong, and she has daily outbursts where she exclaims 'I always do everything wrong', and 'You never say you love me'. She wants to do everything right, parents see it as a Phase she's stuck in. During the consultation, she avoids eye contact, turning away to avoid making contact, she does this always when under stress or criticism, she's scared and hesitant. Clings to mother. Can look scared or anxious, as well in her eyes and facial expression. She is very sensitive, but otherwise, she is very brave and dares to do everything: climbing, jumping, cycling, and playing in the playground. School is fun, she has all sorts of friends. Crafting, playing outside. With dolls, playing games. When we say something, she withdraws and is sad, she does push boundaries with her behavior.
She prefers not to be addressed, and with punishment, she feels insulted and upset. If the mother says something sweet to her brother, she shouts 'You only say it to him'. Mother: I always wanted to be loved too. The mother has all the attention and understanding for the child and tells everything objectively without burdening the child.
Pregnancy went well, mother had back pain and pelvic complaints. The birth was a planned cesarean section. The start was good, after a few days she turned yellow and there was a hospital admission, mother was still under hormones then. Bottle feeding went well. Mother emphasizes: 'Everything is normal, there's nothing strange'. When she's sick, there's nothing exaggerated. The children always get a lot of attention. She doesn't want vegetables, but we don't make a drama out of it. She's smart, stubborn, happy, and creative. Sleep: every night she comes over to her parents' bed. She is sensitive and competitive, but that's in all of us within the family, she wants to be the fastest, and she usually is.
There are no particularities, the parents report once again.
After the big brother was in bandages, the behavior became very bad: 'It's not fair, I don't get any gifts'. She's often angry, she cries a lot, 'it's all because of me, it's my fault'. When playing, she is sweet and helpful. Cold sores come up to the right side of the nose.
Analysis
The child's world is the family, nothing else. The problems also lie in the family situation, as the child experiences it. This is suitable for the Silicon series and refers to Silicon series.
Mother had pelvic complaints, known from the Liliidae, classified in Gold series33.
This child is just starting and is aware of the family but has no fixed place yet, fitting with Phase 2. We know crawling into a shell from Calcium, the outbursts, and the sensitivity to care are known from the Magnesium salts, thus fitting with stage 2, which are the basic features of Phase 2. This brings us to 633.20, the Poales. The 'nothing special' both in the child and her condition is a striking statement by the parents, this fits a typical description of the Poales.
Outbursts, anger, longing, impulsiveness, and spontaneity, not having a place: keywords all characteristic of stage 1 and therefore fitting with Phase 1. Within the Poales, we come to the Juncaceae.
Always being the second, stage 9.
Liliidae 633, Poales 633.20, within the Poales, the subfamily Juncaceae what is 633.21, within this family, we choose stage 9. Prescription Juncus effusus C200
follow up
4 weeks: this month has been very good, she feels good, at home the child is relaxed, and no longer emotional, and hasn't said anything about 'her and not me'. The herpes near the nose is gone. She seems to have more confidence, it improved a week after Juncus. Brother continued to receive a lot of attention, because the medical problem persisted, with all the attention that comes with it. She used to be so frustrated, in the past she wanted to be able to do more than her big brother. The burdensome factor was the theme of 'almost', the 'eternal second' of stage 9. In the following months, everything remained good, with only the occasional cold, easily resolved with tissues. Prescriptions of Uranium-metallicum and Mimulus had no effect.