644.32.08 Passiflora edulis, Case
Woman, 65, bronchitis.
She has a cough, worse on lying, better during sleep. With it she has stitching pain in her ears in the morning, sore throat and headache.
She is tired, which is worse after a telephone conversation with her mother. She has taken care of her mother’s finances but then her mother started accusing her of stealing her money, buying a car from her money. Her whole life she has been manipulated by her mother. Her mother used to play her and her brother off against each other. She could never have things out with her mother, as her mother was always distorting what she said. Her mother did not attend her wedding because she could not stand her in-laws, but she told others that she was not allowed to come. Her mother always behaves very generously and warmly towards others, making a show.
Her father left the family when she was young. For a long time she blamed him but later understood his action when she understood her mother better. Her mother always said to her ”Do you know how stupid you are?”. She always tried to show she was not stupid. Her mother has a subtle power over her.
She never felt she was on solid ground with her mother.
Follow up
After Passiflora MK she feels fantastic. She has dreams of being under the ice, suffocating, looking for an exit and found a split that she could widen with her hands and then emerge. Another dream was of a square tab blocked a drawer, she bent the tab 90 degrees and the drawer went smoothly.
She had a talk with her mother together with her brother. She spoke about the accusations but her mother told her that she would never admit anything. After that she had to laugh tremendously for minutes, seeing the whole soap opera. She felt liberated, felt as if the umbilical cord was cut. The duty to take care of her mother was gone. She sees that her mother is disturbed and that it has nothing to do with her.
She feels much lighter and happier. She expresses herself more directly, also towards her husband. She has grasped her freedom.