Case woman 11-7-1997
Relationship with friends – very angry on small irrelevant things. Angryness about small habits, way of clothing,
Traag, vergeetachtig, verstrooid.
Impression – tensed
Strong relationship problems.
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She also had a similar difficult relationship with parents. Double with father: - unsafe because of sudden angryness. One side admiring her, other side humiliating her and others as well. She acted as pleasing.
At her age 4 – showing father the road. Suddenly she did not know the road anymore. Father made her ridiculous. Father |(and she) had a lot with music.
Could disappoint her father the most.
She studied psychology. Disapproval from father. As a child she never creid because her mother already cried always. Mother said that child would cope.
She was a bad eater. Very lean. No safe background.
She had a relationship with her boss. Supervisor of psychotherapy. He was as insecure as she.
Biggest fear was being left alone.
She wanted to have toughness, lacked that very much.
She needed friends to be trusted.
Difficult for her to make boundaries, esp. for men.
She was educated to be very smart, intelligent, this was the way to get attenttion from her father. She wanted to be a better woman than her mother.
What she was angry about was her own problem as well about her friend.
Dream: shopping with brother – losing each other, keeping on searching for each other.
Next dream: she gives directions for the road to father, stuck in mud, she lies with her face on the mud, under the bull (father).
Strong aversion to nutmeg.
Maybe it is also an incest remedy.
Stage 2: they get into contact to get help. Hanging on someone as a result.
Rem.: 1. Anemona nemorosa Rem.: nux.-m.
Follow up
After one month - She is milder to her friend. Quieter.
Dream – not as lost as before from friends any more.
Oedipus complex – where is my roots, am I the kid or the grownup. What relation do I have.