633.54.04 Beaucarnea recurvata, Case
Case by Kate Cross.
Women and man, sexual problems
She has a new relationship and was struggling with sexuality. He could not maintain an erection whilst inside her and she felt penetration was like abuse or rape. Coition felt like a shock. She was quite happy not to have deep penetration anyway, it felt out of balance.
They had known each other for years without thinking anything of a relationship. She suddenly decided to contact him and immediately and from the first minute they knew this was special deep healing relationship that they both wanted to grow and learn from. They both went into the relationship full on from day one, seeing each other everyday and spent hours having sex with incredible enthusiasm. They felt the relationship as very strong and stable, she would have no doubt about the relationship.
He has a fear of women and being dominated by women. In his last few relationships he had been badly hurt and felt he was not honoured as a man.
In this relationship his entire focus was on pleasing this partner and not really ever ejaculating himself.
Also this new relationship for them was the most idyllic love. They feel like total soul mate stuff, on all other levels the relationship is perfect.
Analysis
Carbon series: sexual problems.
Silicon series: relationship problems.
Monocotyledons: idyllic love.
Phase 5: enthusiasm.
Subphase 4: relationship as very strong and stable, no doubt
Stage 4: shocked at the start.
Follow up
After a month she reported huge success on every level. Her partner had maintained a full erection and ejaculated inside her, the first time for over 15 yrs. The change was very quick after taking first dose of remedy which he now calls his sacred sperm remedy !! He is so thrilled as the success has stayed for the entire month and he feels it has shifted the situation completely. She was able to voice what she needed sexually as she felt penetration when he was on top was very unsatisfying and felt like rape, so she was able to express her needs and take a lead.
The whole dynamic of their relationship shifted from him pleasing her with no pleasure for himself and her not voicing her needs to them both having a fulfilling relationship.
Their relationship has deepened, they feel very connected. The sexual side is still good, he has no erection problems. The direction and focus of the relationship has shifted to a different level, more about them expressing themselves to each other.
A year later the problems have vanished completely and their relationship is balanced and blossoming.