Russelia equisetiformis

23 Russelia equisetiformis
Number: 3-665.51.13.
Clades: Plantaginaceae, Lamiales, Lamiidae, Asteranae, Angiospermae.

Introduction
The situation is that of a man who has his life in complete order but his wife
is gone, divorced and passed away and a new wife enters his life but he will not change anything in his life, his house and surroundings. He expects his new wife to adapt to his situation, his Biedermaier furniture and old habits. In the beginning she can fight the situation but gives up after a while, she resigns. Her wishes are counteracted with remarks like “life is not a wish concert”.
There is a need to be seen as a human being and not as a piece of furniture.

Mind
Life is not a request concert.
Philosophical, desire discussions.
Relationship problems, rigidity, for each other versus with each other. Nostalgia, old fashioned, Biedermeier life, holding on to the past.
Delusion: being an old man, ashamed of his cough.
Half paralyzed, half active, performing under his potential.
Refresh, new design; power center in the solar plexus.
Desire art and beauty; aversion to hard work.
Aversion to be used in a marriage, as in insurance against disease and problems. Desire to stay free and independent when life becomes.
Aversion: being forced, chronic helping and caring, dependency, being limited. Desire: to be oneself, playful, free and independent.

General
Desire: drinks, great thirst, < night. Body
Eyes: tears on coughing, runny nose, chilliness and desire for warmth. Nose: stuffy, dry, < lying, runny; sneezing.
Mouth: dry nose.
Lungs: cough, paroxysmal, choking with red head.
Stomach: pain, persistent, < night; heartburn, burning extends to the neck. Back: backache, thoracic, cervical, C5 to T2, neck, shoulder, stiff, limitation of movement.
Rectum: loud flatus; frequent bowel movements.

Discussion Russelia equisetiformis
The first thing is that one can get along with every situation; „Life is not
a Wunschkonzert”, wish concert, jukebox; What is behind this sentence? Resignation? Or order one more beer? You wipe away your partner’s wish, anybody’s remark with this sentence, because it is suppressing.
A theme is also adapting in a relationship, in which one’s partner is dominating, rigid. Man gets a new wife, and not even bedroom is changed in his house. Prover 5: Marriage is not an insurance company, policy (cynical); if a marriage is too hard, he would rather be alone; the other two discussed about living for each other, or just together. With somebody or for somebody.
Situation: frozen in relationship. The husband cannot change.
Came to a nice solution for a relationship: space, come together without expectations; learning from each other in motion, avoiding rigid expectations; movement forward, travelling together.
The situation is that somebody is alone by death and somebody new comes in. Then the above description starts. To let someone in. To hear a doorbell and something comes in, to receive a love letter.
But the problem was that the man cannot change. He had a Biedermeier interior. Maybe the woman gives a chance.
665.53 (or 35)
Conservative, rigid is Phase 5.
Subphase is 3: wife is half in half out (was in Subphase 4 until now).
Stage 13 (nostalgic).
You see mostly Silicon series in the story.
Lanthanide quality was seen in the philosophical discussion.
Many Scrophulariaceae have been put somewhere else in APG III.
Subphase 3: wife adapting and pleasing.
Phase 5: man taking all the space.
Stage 13: nostalgia, old fashioned style, conservative.

Proving Russelia equisetiformis
Trituration proving, Nosy Be, Madagascar 28-9-2013. Provers: Prover 8, Prover 5, Prover 17.

C1
Get along with everyone.
Prover 8: “Come to terms with every man, with every situation”.
The freedom to do a proving with everyone, to be able to be free for what comes is more important to him than that a request has to go for fulfilment.
Prover 5: To get along with everyone, but how it fits with everyone.
Prover 8: After all, life is not a request concert.
Resistance to the expression “life is not a request concert”.
With this sentence you can suppress your surroundings and the provers remember situations in which this phrase is used.
When someone says the phrase, “Life is not a request concert”, he often brings to the expression:
Prover 17: You’ve already given up, resigned.
Prover 17: You do not need to enter into the other.
Prover 17: Insufficient you fulfilled your wishes, so you need a lot of beer when you strangle the wishes of the other, then you strangle your wishes also from. Prover 17: I wanted for so long to go to a dance class, but he rather goes to the inn.
Prover 17: Deadened marital situation.
Prover 17: fits to beer drinkers who do not fulfil any wishes for themselves and their surroundings and instead drink.
Prover 17: Each request can be shot down with it.
Different ideas about relationships
Prover 5 remembers a situation in which he wanted to make a dance class with a woman, but she immediately wanted to go to bed with him instead of the dance course.
Rigid attitudes and ideas in relationships; One cannot accept another; Biedermeier life.
Prover 17 remembers her former relationship: My boyfriend at the time lived on in the house where he had lived for 25 years with his ex wife. She came to him at the weekend, but it was everything as in his marriage. She found everything before as it was in his marriage and she never felt comfortable and at home there. Phrases like: “You have everything, a house, a friend, you are ungrateful”, have not helped her.
She experienced her boyfriend as rigid, holding to the past.
Prover 5: “Ship and captain only need a new cook”. “But if you cannot lose anything, then you will lose something very valuable”. She indeed separated him.
The relationship was very tiring, it was hard work, hard work, a lot of hassle. It was exhausting as in a quarry.
Prover 17: for a long time adapting, you have to be grateful because after all. Patience, very long for many things, but when it incoming to an end internally, it is the end.
My home is my castle, it was an allotment atmosphere, a Biedermeier lifestyle. She had to adapt, endure it.

C2
Bell; let people come in; let people be; rigid.
Prover 8: Door bell, let people in, in your kingdom, let people arrive.
Prover 5 is pleased when he hears the doorbell, he likes to go to the door and is curious to see who is coming, it ‘s a feeling like to receive a love letter and opening it.
Prover 5 feels rather like Woody Allan, if his door rings he thinks that a woman could be out there and he must find out about her, afraid of what is there, he must let the woman? Is there trouble, is she crying?”
Prover 5: Each well may be, but how it fits with every.
Prover 17 holds on, rigidly.
Prover 8: my communication with my son works better, I can see my mistakes as a father and understands the pressure I have built up for my son.
For each other or with each other in relationships.
There was a lively discussion about for each other and with each other in the relationship.
Michael wants a life in which one is there for each other.
The phrase for each other excited in Prover 5 and Prover 8 a fierce resistance, they sensed in it a severity and hardness.
It sounded like the feeling: “Relationships are stressful, relationships is hard work”.
Prover 5 and Prover 8 want to emphasize the cooperation and coexistence, without thinking directly on the need of helping the other, which would be more exceptional as in the case of an emergency.
Prover 17 wishes she had a partner with whom she can live her everyday life, in which one is there for each other.
It contradicts the “for each other in the relationship:.
Even when ill one would be able to tolerate that others have a better life.
The bitterness of his life cannot be taken away by his partner.
Prover 5 wants a coexistence.
Prover 5 and Prover 8 see the coexistence must not be a constraint for each other, no force, it must be voluntary.
Prover 17: Too much “for each other” in the relationship, constantly requiring something in the relationship, is at odds with too little for each other, everyone must cope alone when it goes bad, without connections.
Prover 5: I prefer to cook alone when I’m sad.
Prover 5: The question, “How are you?” elicits the thought, “What does he want from me?”
Prover 8: Only funny, happy playing with each other works well; if you are forced happiness is lost.

C3
Learning together, from each other, move with each other, without expectations in the meeting
Prover 5 stopped working with some of his musicians who blocked him and did not want or could not join in new developments. He feels it as a great liberation. Prover 5 would rather be alone and independent, than being dictated.
Prover 5 can work with anybody, learning in a joint motion.
Prover 17’s former partner was very stressful because he was always so funny. Much can be covered with being funny, calm and quiet is not always sad. Prover 5: One should not wish anything from the other, rather watch what comes from the other.
Prover 17: the strenuous, the quarry in the relationship are the extremely high expectations placed on you by your partner and by yourself.
Prover 5: expectations and being present for each other have to be distinguished from changing with and learning from each other.
Prover 5: If it becomes difficult, then you should move forward to succeed. Prover 5: The cancellation of the support for his music project does not bother him, because his direction it is clear anyway and he will start the project anyway. His usual anxiety, a feeling of destruction and anger in such situations does not come on.
Refresh, new design; power center in the solar plexus.
Prover 5’s life feels refreshed, like new and as if the contact to his own life is restored, as if he would come back from a no man’s land in his daily life run off. Prover 5: He experiences his creative power more.
Prover 8: it feels like a force center forms in his solar plexus.
Prover 5 feels in him a power center formed, with all the weaknesses and imperfections.
Later proving with C30, Q1, Q3
Half paralyzed, half active, ending nothing.
Not responding, performing under his potential.
Going form half to whole, from criticism of relationships to self criticism and self recognition.
Prover 8 is more open for self-criticism.
Prover 5 looks more closely at what irritates him constantly, what he accuses his partner of, in order to understand what are his problems.
Comment: use of the instrument of self-knowledge; what I reproach in the other, what bothers me about them, are my own weaknesses; do not get stuck in the half self-knowledge; do not get upset in the outside world without recognizing the same inside oneself to redeem it.
Prover 5 notices that he thinks too little of himself, lacks self-confidence; he is far below his potential, from a kind of paralysis, being weak. He is thus half active or inactive and lazy. Mired in “small, small considerations” as philistine petty bourgeois attitudes.
Prover 8 calls for 3 different craftsmen to report a long existing damage to his house with warranty; they are not responding.
Prover 8 sees a huge workload in front of him in 4 days; he gets very concentrated, there must be no hesitation and that he must remain in the flow, otherwise he can not bring it to an end. He is very fit, although he sleeps little and feels like cleaned afterwards.
Prover 5 gets more close to his girlfriend because he appreciates more fully
in her nonconformist and unconventional behaviour. He sees her traits as an expression of her personality and not as an error, for which he even has felt ashamed. He experiences his relationship with his girlfriend not painfully incomplete anymore, but as an expression of the two personalities making up the relationship.
Prover 5 has impressions of colours, green, purple, bright red, like a flag in the wind. And no edges.
Prover 5: the flower has a long, narrow, deep calyx, you have to be a specialist to get to the nectar.
Prover 8: Equisetiformis blooms in the form of an old plant: old form, new flower.
The word dimenhydrinate (Vomex A, an antiemetic) comes on in Prover 5’s mind frequently.
Body
Prover 5: Nose: sneezing, runny nose.
Prover 8: Stuffy nose < lie.
Prover 8: Dry mouth and dry nose.
Stomach: pain, heartburn stomach, burning extends to the neck. Persistent stomach pain at night.
Awakened with great thirst at night, drink a ton of water.
Prover 8: backache, thoracic and cervical spine cervical syndrome; neck stiffness, limitation of movement, pain in the area Cervical 5 to Thoracic 2 and in the shoulder areas.
Prover 5 has paroxysmal coughing, choking with red head, like an old man feels he is ashamed of this cough, he does not want to be seen and goes away from other people.
Prover 5: eyes tears when coughing, runny nose, chilliness and desire for warmth.
Prover 8: loud flatus.
Prover 8: frequent bowel movements.

Dreams
Refreshed relationship, love and sex.
Dream Prover 8: he has sex with a strange woman, then he realizes that it’s his wife, but everything feels very new and different, her lips are familiar to him, but again, her body looks bigger. A very beautiful encounter, he wakes up and gradually realizes that he actually has sex with his wife.
Dream Prover 8: he kisses a mistress in a public bus; in front of him sits a well known theologian; he knows that he thinks that he is still married; later on the road, he and his lover meet another well known theologian; the theologian writes something on a piece of paper, it seems to be something to betray the dreamer because of this affair; he fights for the paper with him, but he is not really determined to get away with with the paper, which he would have done long ago.
Dream Prover 5: a woman lies there and has sex with a man who wants to satisfy her with his fingers or wants to have sex only with a condom; she does not want it like that, but they do it nonetheless in this way.
Stage 13
Half armed, criminal, manipulation, prosecution, armed.
Dream Prover 5: three men give a lecture for many listeners, it is like a sales presentation and they are very manipulative; people like to be lied to, he realizes that; he fights against it, but the three men have already won because the audience believes anything and the three men are laughing to himself; he fights them again, however, and tells them that they will come as Nicholas tomorrow; through this irony the whole situations transforms and the people recognize the manipulation and false promises.
Dream Prover 8: a constable pursues a killer, but he does not hit, even though he could grasp him as he is somehow sympathetic to him (stage 13).
Dream Prover 5: a junkie does not leave his practice, he wants to have prescribed this and that, finally, he goes to the medicine cabinet and looks for ampoules; the junkie is nice and menacing; he himself considers to call the police; the junkie puts him under pressure to get something that he needs in his addiction.
Dream Prover 5: fights with a daughter, she avoids the confrontation conveniently and let him just be.
Comment: determination to confront a situation is lacking; on the other hand, it perfectly clear that does not want to get into a senseless fight.
Dream Prover 17: she climbs up on a wall, they tried through a hatch to get inside, but she lacks the power, she waits for help from someone inside; it all felt very tiring.
Unclear danger
Dream Prover 5: he is walking and arrives at a river with a steep waterfall; down in the rock there is a water hole; it is highly dangerous to fall into the hole, but the danger is not recognized properly, especially his dog is so unaware of what seems very dangerous.
Dream Prover 5: he grabs at sea under a wooden bar and is stung by an animal that sits under the bar and cannot see; he feels an uncertainty about how dangerous the stitch could be.
Unique versus convention
Dream Prover 5: a festival, the cultural leader of the city is there, he realizes that all people are not adjusted to their job requirements; everyone is just in his special way; all are friendly with him and each peculiarity is respected, smiling and friendly.
Comment: Everyone is a strange creature, and this characteristic is respected smiling.
Prover 8’s son accuses him that “homeopathy gurus” endanger patients with concussion, while they treat them with homeopathy whereas they really need an antibiotic. He thinks to himself: “What a crock, in these cases you do not need an antibiotic.”
Comment: No common understanding possible, too much ignorance and prejudice.
Stage 13, moths
Dream Prover 5: an army of flying moths fly from his pillow behind him, and every time he turns the pillow again a swarm of moths comes out.
Teratoma
Dream Prover 5: a neighbour pulls a cart in which a teratoma is lying; it is also an idea of how it was born and was stolen from her.
Blurred vision
Dream Prover 17: she looks blurry on the left eye, she tries to see clearly, she wipes the eye, but it will not get better and she gets panic from which she wakens. She stares into the darkness and is happy that it was only a dream luckily. For some days the eye feels weak, even while watching TV. Because she has only one eye seeing very good, she no longer takes the remedy.